Give Yourself to Mary: One Saint’s Urgent Invitation

From the cross, Jesus looked at the beloved disciple and said: “Behold your mother.” St. Louis de Montfort believed those words were meant for every one of us — and that accepting Mary as our mother is one of the surest paths to Christ.

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Among the great Marian saints of the Church’s history, few have spoken with the passion, the theological depth, and the pastoral urgency of St. Louis de Montfort.

Born in Brittany, France, in 1673, this tireless missionary priest devoted his entire life — and his most important writings — to a single, burning conviction: that every Catholic soul ought to consecrate itself to the Blessed Virgin Mary.

This was not, for St. Louis de Montfort, a pious suggestion or a pleasant optional extra. He believed it with the certainty of a man who had prayed it through, argued it from Scripture and theology, and watched it transform the lives of ordinary men and women across the French countryside.

His masterwork, True Devotion to the Blessed Virgin Mary, written around 1712 and miraculously rediscovered after being hidden for over a century, remains one of the most powerful calls to Marian consecration ever put to paper.

But what did St. Louis de Montfort actually mean by consecrating oneself to Mary? And why does it matter so deeply?


Mary Is Not Optional

St. Louis de Montfort began with a truth so simple it is easy to overlook: God chose Mary. Not angels. Not prophets. Not any other arrangement He might have devised. When the eternal Word of God became flesh, He did so through a woman — through her body, her yes, her faith, her love. The Incarnation passed through Mary.

From this fact, St. Louis de Montfort drew a conclusion that shaped everything else he taught. If God, in His infinite wisdom and freedom, chose to give His Son to the world through Mary, then Mary is not incidental to our salvation — she is woven into it. To receive Jesus fully is, in some sense, to receive Him as she received Him: with an open, surrendered, trusting heart.

“It is through the Most Holy Virgin Mary that Jesus Christ came into the world, and it is also through her that He must reign in the world.”True Devotion to the Blessed Virgin Mary

This is the foundation of St. Louis de Montfort’s Marian spirituality. The path God laid down at the Annunciation — Son given through Mother — is not a one-time historical event. It is the shape of how God continues to work in souls. Mary remains, in the economy of grace, what she was at Bethlehem: the one through whom Christ comes.


She Is Already Your Mother

One of the most moving threads in St. Louis de Montfort’s teaching is his insistence that consecrating oneself to Mary is not the creation of a new relationship — it is the wholehearted acceptance of one that already exists.

From the cross, with His dying breath, Jesus looked at the beloved disciple and said: Behold your mother. 

The Church has always understood that in that moment, Christ gave His mother not just to John, but to every soul that would ever follow Him. Mary became, at Calvary, the mother of the entire Body of Christ. She did not become our mother because we chose her. She became our mother because He gave her to us.

St. Louis de Montfort wanted every Catholic to feel the weight and the warmth of that truth. You already have a mother in heaven. She already intercedes for you. She already loves you with the love of the woman who stood at the foot of the cross and did not turn away. Consecrating yourself to her is simply saying, with your whole heart: Yes. I accept this gift. I am yours, Mother, and I trust you to bring me to your Son.


What We Gain When We Give Ourselves to Her

St. Louis de Montfort was not merely a poet of Marian devotion. He was a practical pastor, and he spoke plainly about what it means — concretely, spiritually — to place oneself in Mary’s hands.

She purifies what we bring

St. Louis de Montfort was deeply honest about the condition of the human soul. Our prayers wander. Our good works are often tangled up with pride or self-interest. Our repentance is incomplete. When we bring these imperfect offerings to God on our own, we bring them as they are. But when we bring them to Mary first — when we ask her, as a child asks a mother, to take what we have and make it worthy — something changes. She purifies our intentions. She supplements our weakness. She presents to Jesus what we could not present adequately on our own.

She forms Christ in us

This was perhaps St. Louis de Montfort’s most beautiful insight: just as Mary formed Christ in her womb, she forms Christ in the souls of those who are consecrated to her. Holiness, in his vision, is not a set of achievements but a gestation. The soul surrendered to Mary is a soul in which Jesus is being slowly, tenderly, patiently formed — shaped by the same hands that held Him in Nazareth.

She brings us safely to Jesus

St. Louis de Montfort never lost sight of the goal. Mary is not the destination — she is the surest road. Every grace she receives, she passes on. Every soul entrusted to her, she carries toward her Son. Those who consecrate themselves to her do not find themselves farther from Jesus. They find themselves closer, drawn by a mother’s love along the most direct path to the Heart of God.


A Life That Proved the Teaching

What makes St. Louis de Montfort’s urgency so compelling is that he did not merely write about consecrating oneself to Mary — he lived it. Every missionary journey undertaken in poverty, every sermon preached to indifferent or hostile crowds, every hardship endured without complaint: he placed it all in Mary’s hands and trusted her to make it fruitful. He died at 43, worn out, largely unknown. His greatest manuscript was lost within years of his death.

And yet Mary kept it. Hidden in a chest for over a hundred years, True Devotion to the Blessed Virgin Mary was rediscovered in 1842 and went on to shape the spiritual lives of millions — including St. Pope John Paul II, who took the words Totus Tuus (“Totally Yours”) from St. Louis de Montfort’s consecration prayer as his own papal motto. The man who had given everything to Mary found, in the end, that she had given everything back — pressed down, shaken together, and running over.

“Never be afraid of loving the Blessed Virgin too much. You can never love her more than Jesus did.” — St. Maximilian Kolbe


For Every Soul, In Every State of Life

St. Louis de Montfort was careful to make clear that this call to consecrate oneself to Mary is not reserved for the spiritually advanced, the religiously vowed, or the extraordinarily devout. He wrote for the farmer and the mother, the sinner and the struggling soul, the person who felt too ordinary or too broken to offer God very much at all.

That, he would say, is precisely the point. You do not need to be worthy before you give yourself to Mary. You give yourself to her because you are not worthy — because you need a mother’s help to become what God is calling you to be. She does not wait for perfect children. She works with what she receives, because that is what mothers do.

If you have never consecrated yourself to the Blessed Virgin Mary, we invite you to accept St. Louis de Montfort’s personal invitation by clicking on the Consecration link below. In making this consecration with a sincere heart, you are saying to Mary: Mother, I am yours. Bring me to your Son.

That is what St. Louis de Montfort spent his life proclaiming. Mary, our mother, whose arms are always open, always waiting, always leading — straight to Jesus.

Consecration to the Immaculate Heart of Mary


St. Louis de Montfort

About St. Louis de Montfort

St. Louis de Montfort was an influential French priest and mystic who lived from 1673 to 1716, best known for his intense devotion to the Virgin Mary and his writings on Marian spirituality. Despite facing frequent opposition from church authorities and being forbidden to preach in several French dioceses, he traveled extensively throughout western France as a missionary, focusing particularly on renewing devotion to the rosary among the poor and encouraging total consecration to Jesus through Mary. His most famous works, “True Devotion to Mary” and “The Secret of the Rosary,” were largely forgotten until his manuscript was rediscovered in 1842, after which his Marian theology gained widespread influence in Catholic spirituality. He founded two religious congregations: the Daughters of Wisdom to serve the poor and sick, and the Company of Mary (Montfort Fathers) for priests. His emphasis on the role of Mary in bringing souls to Christ influenced many later figures, including Pope John Paul II, who took his papal motto “Totus Tuus” (Totally Yours) from de Montfort’s teachings. Despite living only 43 years, he composed numerous hymns, wrote several influential spiritual treatises, and established a form of Marian consecration that continues to impact Catholic spirituality today.

Prayers & Devotions


Prayer to Mary

Prayer to Mary

This fervent Prayer to Maryis a heartfelt act of consecration, in which we greet her with reverence and acknowledge her as our beloved Mother, Mistress, and Sovereign. We offer ourselves wholly to her, pleading for her to destroy within us all that is displeasing to God and to cultivate in us everything that is pleasing to her. We beseech Mary to fill us with her virtues, merits, and spirit, so that we may know Jesus and His divine will, praise and glorify the Lord, and love God with a pure and ardent love like hers.

Prayer Video –Prayer to Mary

Hail Mary, beloved Daughter of the Eternal Father! Hail Mary, admirable Mother of the Son! Hail Mary, faithful spouse of the Holy Ghost! Hail Mary, my dear Mother, my loving Mistress, my powerful sovereign! Hail my joy, my glory, my heart, and my soul! Thou art all mine by mercy, and I am all thine by justice. But I am not yet sufficiently thine. I now give myself wholly to thee without keeping anything back for myself or others. If thou still seest in me anything which does not belong to thee, I beseech thee to take it and to make thyself the absolute Mistress of all that is mine. Destroy in me all that may be displeasing to God; root it up and bring it to naught; place and cultivate in me everything that is pleasing to thee.

May the light of thy faith dispel the darkness of my mind; may thy profound humility take the place of my pride; may thy sublime contemplation check the distractions of my wandering imagination; may thy continuous sight of God fill my memory with His presence; may the burning love of thy heart inflame the lukewarmness of mine; may thy virtues take the place of my sins; may thy merits be my only adornment in the sight of God and make up for all that is wanting in me.

Finally, dearly beloved Mother, grant, if it be possible, that I may have no other spirit but thine, to know Jesus and His divine will; that I may have no other soul but thine, to praise and glorify the Lord; that I may have no other heart but thine, to love God with a love as pure and ardent as thine.

I do not ask thee for visions, revelations, sensible devotion, or spiritual pleasures. It is thy privilege to see God clearly; it is thy privilege to enjoy heavenly bliss; it is thy privilege to triumph gloriously in Heaven at the right hand of thy Son and to hold absolute sway over angels, men and demons; it is thy privilege to dispose of all the gifts of God just as thou willest.

Such is, O heavenly Mary, the “best part,” which the Lord has given thee and which shall never be taken away from thee—and this thought fills my heart with joy. As for my part here below, I wish for no other than that which was thine: to believe sincerely without spiritual pleasures; to suffer joyfully without human consolation; to die continually to myself without respite; and to work zealously and unselfishly for thee until death as the humblest of thy servants.

The only grace I beg thee to obtain for me is that every day and every moment of my life I may say “Amen; so be it”—to all that thou didst do while on earth; “Amen; so be it”—to all that thou art now doing in Heaven; “Amen; so be it”—to all that thou art doing in my soul, so that thou alone mayest fully glorify Jesus in me for time and eternity. Amen.