Our Lady of Sorrows — Echoes of Mary’s Anguish

In the shadow of autumn, September unfolds as a poignant tribute to Our Lady of Sorrows, inviting the faithful to journey through Mary’s seven heartaches, discovering wells of strength, beacons of hope, and a masterclass in compassion.

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As autumn approaches and the leaves begin to turn, the Catholic Church enters a period of profound reflection and devotion.

September, a month often associated with change and new beginnings, is dedicated to Our Lady of Sorrows—a time to contemplate the suffering of Mary, the mother of Jesus, and draw inspiration from her unwavering faith and strength.

The Journey of a Devotion

The devotion to Our Lady of Sorrows has deep roots in Catholic tradition, dating back to the 13th century. It began with the Servite Order, founded in 1233 by seven noblemen from Florence who had a special devotion to the sorrows of Mary. However, it wasn’t until 1668 that Pope Clement X officially designated September as the Month of Our Lady of Sorrows, with her feast day falling on September 15th.

The choice of September for this devotion is significant. Following the liturgical season of Ordinary Time and lacking major feasts of its own, September provides a perfect backdrop for this somber yet hopeful reflection. As nature begins its transition towards winter, Catholics are invited to meditate on themes of suffering, perseverance, and ultimate redemption.

The Seven Sorrows of Mary

Central to this devotion are the Seven Sorrows (or Dolors) of Mary. These pivotal moments in Mary’s life represent times of intense emotional and spiritual anguish, yet through each, she remained steadfast in her faith and obedience to God’s will. The Seven Sorrows are:

  1. The Prophecy of Simeon (Luke 2:34-35)
  2. The Flight into Egypt (Matthew 2:13-14)
  3. The Loss of the Child Jesus in the Temple (Luke 2:43-45)
  4. Mary Meets Jesus on the Way to Calvary (Luke 23:26-27)
  5. Jesus Dies on the Cross (John 19:25-30)
  6. Mary Receives the Body of Jesus in Her Arms (Matthew 27:57-59)
  7. The Body of Jesus is Placed in the Tomb (John 19:40-42)

Each of these sorrows represents a profound trial in Mary’s life, from the foreshadowing of her son’s suffering to the ultimate pain of witnessing his death and burial.

Unraveling the Divine Mystery

The devotion to Our Lady of Sorrows is not merely an exercise in empathy, but a deeply theological reflection on the nature of suffering, redemption, and the human experience of faith.

Mary’s sorrows parallel and are intimately connected with the suffering of Christ. Just as Jesus’ suffering was redemptive for humanity, Mary’s sorrows are seen as co-redemptive. This concept, known as Marian co-redemption, suggests that while Christ’s sacrifice alone was sufficient for human salvation, Mary’s suffering united with his plays a unique role in the economy of salvation.

Furthermore, Mary’s example provides a model for all Christians on how to face suffering with dignity, faith, and hope. Her unwavering trust in God’s plan, even in the face of unimaginable pain, offers comfort and inspiration to those facing their own trials.

Practices and Traditions

Throughout September, Catholics are encouraged to engage in various practices to honor Our Lady of Sorrows:

  1. The Chaplet of the Seven Sorrows: A special chaplet meditation focusing on Mary’s seven sorrows.
  2. Novena to Our Lady of Sorrows: A nine-day prayer devotion, often culminating on the feast day.
  3. Wearing black or purple: Some faithful wear these colors symbolizing mourning and penitence.
  4. Artistic depictions: Reflection on images of the Pietà or other artistic representations of Mary’s sorrow.
  5. Special Masses and services: Many parishes hold specific liturgies or prayer services during this month.

Contemporary Relevance

In our modern world, often characterized by suffering and uncertainty, the devotion to Our Lady of Sorrows takes on renewed significance. It reminds us that pain and sorrow are universal human experiences, but they need not lead to despair. Mary’s example shows us how to navigate our own “valleys of tears” with grace, dignity, and hope.

Moreover, this devotion encourages empathy and compassion. By meditating on Mary’s sorrows, we are reminded of the suffering of others and called to offer comfort and support to those in pain.

Devotions to Our Lady of Sorrows

Seven Sorrows of Mary Chaplet

The Rosary of the Seven Sorrows of Mary

Novena to Our Lady of Sorrows

Novena to Our Lady of Sorrows


Novena to Our Lady of Sorrows

This Novena to Our Lady of Sorrows devotion includes prayers honoring each of the Seven Sorrows of Mary. Our Lady of Sorrows, also known as Mater Dolorosa, is a title given to our Blessed Mother and focuses on Mary’s profound suffering and grief during the seven painful events she endured during her life as the mother of Jesus: (1.) the Prophecy of Simeon, (2.) the Flight into Egypt, (3.) the Loss of Jesus in the Temple, (4.) Mary Meets Jesus on the Way to Calvary, (5.) the Crucifixion and Death of Jesus, (6.) the Piercing of Jesus’ Side and the Taking Down of His Body from the Cross, and (7.) the Burial of Jesus.

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Novena to Our Lady of Sorrows

Prayer Video – Novena to Our Lady of Sorrows

Hail Mary Prayer
Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with thee. Blessed are thou among women, and blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus. Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death. Amen.

Prayer to Our Sorrowful Mother for a Particular Grace
O, mother most holy and sorrowful, Queen of Martyrs, you who stood by your Son as He agonized on the Cross; by the sufferings of your life, by that sword of pain that pierced your heart, by your perfect joy in heaven, look down on me kindly as I kneel before you, sympathizing with your sorrows and offering you my petition with childlike trust.

Dear Mother, since your Son refuses you nothing, ask of His Sacred Heart to mercifully grant what I ask, through the merits of His sacred passion, along with those of your sufferings at the foot of the Cross.

Mother most merciful, to whom shall I go in my misery if not to you who pities us poor sinful exiles in this valley of tears? In our name, offer Jesus but one drop of His most precious Blood, but one pang of His loving Heart. Remind Him that you are our sweetness, our life, and our hope, and your prayer will be heard. Amen.

The Memorare
Remember, O most gracious Virgin Mary, that never was it known that anyone who fled to your protection, implored your help or sought your intercession, was left unaided. Inspired by this confidence, I fly unto thee, O Virgin of virgins, my Mother. To thee do I come, before thee I stand, sinful and sorrowful. O Mother of the Word Incarnate, despise not my petitions, but in thy clemency, hear and answer me. Amen.

[In honor of the Seven Sorrows of Mary]

V:  O God, come to my assistance;
R:  O Lord, make haste to help me.

Glory be to the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, as it was in the beginning, is now, and ever shall be, world without end. Amen.

  1. I grieve for you, O Mary most sorrowful, in the affliction of your tender heart at the prophecy of the holy and aged Simeon. Dear Mother, by your heart so afflicted, obtain for me the virtue of humility and the gift of the holy fear of God. Hail Mary…
  2. I grieve for you, O Mary most sorrowful, in the anguish of your most affectionate heart during the flight into Egypt and your sojourn there. Dear Mother, by your heart so troubled, obtain for me the virtue of generosity, especially toward the poor, and the gift of piety. Hail Mary…
  3. I grieve for you, O Mary most sorrowful, in those anxieties which tried your troubled heart at the loss of your dear Jesus. Dear Mother, by your heart so full of anguish, obtain for me the virtue of chastity and the gift of knowledge. Hail Mary…
  4. I grieve for you, O Mary most sorrowful, in the consternation of your heart at meeting Jesus as He carried His Cross. Dear Mother, by your heart so troubled, obtain for me the virtue of patience and the gift of fortitude. Hail Mary…
  5. I grieve for you, O Mary most sorrowful, in the martyrdom which your generous heart endured in standing near Jesus in His agony. Dear Mother, by your afflicted heart obtain for me the virtue of temperance and the gift of counsel. Hail Mary…
  6. I grieve for you, O Mary most sorrowful, in the wounding of your compassionate heart, when the side of Jesus was struck by the lance before His Body was removed from the Cross. Dear Mother, by your heart thus transfixed, obtain for me the virtue of fraternal charity and the gift of understanding. Hail Mary…
  7. I grieve for you, O Mary most sorrowful, for the pangs that wrenched your most loving heart at the burial of Jesus. Dear Mother, by your heart sunk in the bitterness of desolation, obtain for me the virtue of diligence and the gift of wisdom. Hail Mary…

Let Us Pray:

Grant, we beseech Thee, O Lord Jesus Christ, that the most blessed Virgin Mary, Thy Mother, may intercede for us before the throne of Thy mercy, now and at the hour of our death, through whose most holy soul, in the hour of Thine own passion, the sword of sorrow passed. Through Thee, Jesus Christ, Savior of the world, who livest and reignest with the Father and the Holy Spirit. Forever and ever. Amen.


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